Find Your Place Coaching

For people trying to rebuild confidence, connection, and find their place again after moving abroad for a partner or work, or returning home after life abroad.

This may be for you if…

  • You moved abroad for your partner or work, and this new chapter feels harder than expected
  • You are trying to build meaningful connection, but it has not happened as naturally as you hoped
  • Your routines, relationships, independence, confidence, or work identity have shifted since moving
  • You look like you are managing from the outside, but inside you feel disconnected or unsure how to find your place
  • You have returned home after living abroad, but home does not feel as familiar as you expected
  • Some relationships have changed, and you are trying to understand how living abroad has shaped what matters to you now
  • You want a calm and structured space to reflect clearly, understand yourself better, and move forward in small steps

Support That Matches Where You Are

Not everyone needs the same level of support.
That’s why coaching is structured in two pathways depending on the depth and duration you need.

Hi, I’m Szilvia

I moved to Denmark as an accompanying spouse, so I know what it can feel like when moving abroad begins with someone else’s opportunity and you suddenly need to rebuild your own life in a new place.

Over time, I found my own direction again personally, socially, and professionally.
I later became a people leader and hiring manager, supporting others through uncertainty, confidence challenges, and career transitions.

I am a Certified Professional Coach through Coach Transformation Academy.
Today, I bring together lived experience, leadership background, and professional coaching training in a calm, structured, reflective, and gently challenging approach.

I offer coaching in English and Hungarian, with sensitivity to what it can feel like to build a life, work, and find your place across cultures.

Coaching Testimonials

“Together, we shifted the emphasis onto valuable things, actions, and thoughts.”

When I think of Szilvi, the first words that come to mind are safe space and acceptance. We started working together in a very difficult life situation. During the process, I received many tools and points of support from her, through which I was able to climb out from the very bottom of the pit with Szilvi’s support.

I am very grateful for the full attention I have received from her since our very first meeting. 

I receive very empathetic and affirming feedback from Szilvi. 

Reflected in her attention, I came to many realizations about myself, and through her expertise I received the tools to make changes in those areas.

I was able to move from my self-destructive mechanisms toward self-love. Instead of self-criticism, I learned a supportive and understanding attitude. 

I learned to focus on my positive qualities and on constructive, nourishing actions, and through this, my negative patterns and cycles of thought slowly turned in a more positive direction.

Together, we shifted the emphasis onto valuable things, actions, and thoughts. 

We have continued the work ever since, and when a new difficulty comes and I lose my center, Szilvi reminds me of the things that are valuable to me and that give me strength and renewal for the next step.

I have learned a lot about patience and about having realistic expectations toward myself. The tool of planning the next steps paints a completely new and achievable vision of the future in front of me, and that gives me hope.

Eszter

My coaching experience with Szilvia has been truly transformative. It not only strengthened my understanding of the Danish Job Market (especially bursting so many myths I was carrying) but also brought me a deep sense of clarity about my own journey.

What stood out most was her ability to guide me inward- to help me recognize my own patterns and understand how my past experiences were unconsciously holding me back from moving forward. 

Her approach is both insightful and empowering.

Along with this, something that also reflects her personality is; the safe space she creates. With her, you are free to be vulnerable, overwhelmed and honest about your experiences whether good or bad, without any fear of being judged.

She gently guides you to discover your own light and clarity. 

And as I shared at the end of our coaching sessions: “She allowed me to break myself, knowing she would hold every piece so I could rebuild myself.” And this captures the essence of this experience.

This journey has been about safety, self-reflection, and finding clarity from within. 

I am truly grateful for her guidance and support- this would not have been possible without her.

Thank you, Szilvia.

Namrata

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Coaching with me

In coaching, we may work on and explore:

  • understanding why this transition feels harder than expected
  • rebuilding confidence after moving abroad or returning home
  • creating routines that help you feel more grounded
  • building meaningful connection in your new or changed environment
  • exploring what matters to you now
  • understanding how the move has affected your work identity, relationships, and your independence
  • noticing the thoughts, fears, expectations, or assumptions that may be holding you back
  • moving forward in small steps toward a life that feels more grounded, connected, and your own

Below, you’ll find two ways we can work together — depending on where you are right now.

If you’re unsure which path feels right, you’re welcome to reach out at szilvia@decodingdenmark.com, and we can clarify it together.

6-session coaching program

For focused support

When you are navigating moving abroad, returning home, confidence, meaningful connection, routines, work identity, or a transition you are ready to understand and shift.

6x 60 mins
4500 DKK

10-session coaching program

For deeper support

When you want more space to rebuild confidence, create meaningful connection, explore what matters to you now, and move toward a life that feels more grounded, connected, and your own.

10x 60 mins
7000 DKK

After booking: Once your payment is confirmed, I’ll contact you within 48 hours and send you my calendar link, so you can choose a time for your first session.

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